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From sometimes to often or periodically all of the time, life manifests itself as a nasty bully who makes your existence miserable and tries to bring you to your knees. At least, that's how you experience it.

Life can be war in its many appearances, ruthless, relentless and uninhibited. It continuously forces you to a fight when you don't want to be bothered. You want to be left alone and live a carefree life. If you don't respond to the challenge with which life troubles you, you perpetuate misery for yourself.

I know, you are tired, exhausted even; setbacks don't seem to end; you feel alone; you can't see light at the end of the tunnel; darkness all around you.

But if you don't fight back, you sell yourself short by getting knocked out at some point. Why should you let that happen? Don't lose yourself!

Time to enter smart self-governance, boo back to the bully and take the bundle of life's reins into your own hands.



Bear in mind one thing. Sadly, life can hit you hard. In such a way, even personal governance seems to lose out to the heaviness of what happens to you. What's left is coping, trying to make the best of it under the circumstances. That too is a matter of personal governance.

When Life Messes With You, Are You Resilient?

Are You Prepared?

Ready To Respond Forcefully?

Come Out Unscathed?

End Up In Control?

Given the seriousness of anticipating and overcoming life's setbacks, it is highly recommended to call in a mentor, an experienced and professional trusted confidant, to help boost your governance qualities more quickly and effectively and to keep you alert. 

In teaming up with a mentor lies the success of your mental rebirth and new resilience. Spirit and state of mind are areas where a mentor excels.

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Have you programmed Valentine’s Day and your Wedding day in your phone’s organiser app? What do you say? You don’t need to do that. Your memory is still good enough, is it? Brilliant. Well done, old sport. Really hope you don’t forget. 

Nevertheless, I suggest you put these dates on your phone. Do set the alerts too, and not be too late for whatever you plan to pamper your better half with.

But haven’t you forgotten to enter today? Yes, nearly too late. Sorry.                                                                                                                                                                                                                            Wasn’t it during your wedding that you promised your partner your full and unconditional love 24/7? You did! Well, that is today, my friend. 

Not with me yet? Do I have to spell it out for you?

For heaven’s sake, this is only a reminder.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        Now then, time for a strong, surprising move. Quickly that is. Whatever you can come up with. 

Flowers from the filling station? A poor box of chocolate from the supermarket? A pair of Happy Socks? An impersonal ‘nice’ scent, maybe. Wow, you’ll undoubtedly make a great impression with such gifts. Your better half will be blown away.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              I challenge you! Turn around. Make an effort, you don't have to wait until Valentine's day. Act out of the box. Spare no expense to show from the heart what full and unconditional love means to you! Better even, write a love letter, handwritten! Pour out what is in your heart and use poetic language. Be creative. At least do your very, very best. Such efforts reach the heart, be sure of it.

And ladies, it also applies to you!!! Make an effort.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          You’re not too late yet. Next year, set your alerts and be on time. Promise? Happy evening …… !

Hey, if something in your partnership is bothering you, contact me. I have a few good plans to attack obstacles in partnerships and work with you toward a more attractive version of yourself.                                                                                                                                                                                                Just contact me at info@theuniquelifecreator.com. 



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             Relationship              Worthiness Check©

Periodically check which people from your relationship circles contribute to your life, to where you want to go in life, to what you want to achieve, and to how you want to live.                                                                In short, think about whether these people are still worthy of a relationship with you. The Relationship Worthiness Check©, based on my concept of Circles of Influence©, offers you a quick order of your thoughts and good filtering out of those who are not (or no longer) a relationship worthy.  

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Vision Board©

Is the "destination" of your life - where you want to end up in life - an invisible hand from the universe giving you direction? You might wonder.

Isn't it more exciting and fun if you want to get the best out of life for yourself and delve into what life fulfilment (often work) best matches your qualities and dreams? And where to find it? And to achieve it in the end?      

         Toe-in-the-Water©         Plan

The Toe-in-the-Water© Plan is meant for you as a Mentee and me as Mentor to get acquainted,  exchange procedural information, explain what Consultancy in reality means, and what key issues the mentee wishes to shed a light on, and develop together a Consultancy scheme. All in a confidential personal setting.                 Important is that you and I feel some personal connection and trust and get convinced that further contacts could develop fruitfully.